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When Fear Feels Like a Wall, What If It's a Door?

11/30/2025

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Advent begins in a world that knows fear well. The names and settings change—Herod then, headlines now—but the tremor in the soul feels familiar. In this message, we place fear on the table and give it language, drawing from Scripture and lived experience to see what it wants us to notice. Lamentations cries from the pit, and Luke introduces us to Zechariah, a faithful priest undone by an angel’s arrival. This fear is not a jump scare; it is "tarassó," a deep disturbance that shakes body and spirit. Instead of shaming fear, we ask what it signals. Often it points to love, longing, and stakes that matter. Advent speaks into that tremor, not to erase it, but to steady it with hope.

To get practical, we look at how different people cope with fear through the Enneagram’s nine lenses. Some rush toward perfection, others toward service, success, intensity, knowledge, security, pleasure, control, or peacekeeping. Each strategy tells a story about a wound we want to avoid. None are wrong in essence; they are attempts to feel safe. But when fear drives in secret, it can distort our view and relationships. Naming our pattern is a spiritual practice because it breaks denial and invites compassion. When we recognize “I’m grasping for certainty” or “I’m avoiding pain with plans,” we can choose a fuller response. Advent’s gift is time and trust to make that choice with honesty and tenderness.

Luke’s detail—“in the days of King Herod”—matters because hope never shows up in a vacuum. Herod built grand projects and a fragile ego, taxing the vulnerable to fund his image. People lived with macro anxieties: instability, domination, and disparity. Zechariah and Elizabeth carried micro grief: longing for a child amid stigma and aging. Scripture brings both scales together so we don’t privatize faith or politicize it without soul. God meets us where public pressure and private ache converge. The angel’s “do not be afraid” holds both truths, promising a child who will prepare room for a greater liberation that confronts empires and heals households.

Curiosity emerges as fear’s wise companion. Fear says “brick wall.” Curiosity asks “what if this is a door?” Zechariah’s shock shows how disappointment can train us to brace against joy. When grace interrupts, we flinch. Curiosity gives us a way to slow down, breathe, and ask better questions: What story am I telling about scarcity? Where is God already moving? Who can I open toward rather than turn against? In communities, curiosity breaks echo chambers. It listens before it labels. It imagines shared action instead of mutual suspicion. The Herods of history prefer people sealed in their separate fears. Advent invites us to push back by connecting.

The promise to Zechariah is not only about a birth; it is about a new economy of hope. John will point to Jesus, whose presence unsettles rulers who thrive on domination. Advent hope does not deny fear; it reorders it. We practice singing while trembling, lighting candles before the dawn, telling the truth about oppression while refusing cynicism. In prayer, we bring what aches and ask for a nearness that steadies. In action, we show up for each other, choosing clarity over contempt and courage over comfort. Fear reminds us that something precious is at stake. Advent assures us that Someone faithful is at work.

So we rise—bodily if we can, in spirit if we must—and sing of a long-expected mercy that frees us from fears and sins. We do not wait passively; we cultivate holy curiosity. We ask what doors God is already cracking open in our homes, streets, and hearts. We resist the script that says scarcity rules and remember that love multiplies in community. When the inner tremor returns, we can name it without shame and reach for a hand beside us. The beloved thief of grace is breaking in, not to rob joy, but to restore it. That is how Advent trains us to live alert, tender, and brave.
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    Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Fearing is the Head of Staff of Guilford Park Presbyterian Church.

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