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"The Listening Heart: What Solomon Asked For - and What We Need"

5/31/2026

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The Listening Heart: What Solomon Asked For — And What We Need

1 Kings 3:3–15

May 31, 2026 — 1st Sunday after Pentecost (Year A)

This blog post was generated by AI based on the sermon manuscript and reviewed by Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Fearing. It is not the sermon manuscript itself and may differ from what was preached.

If God appeared to you in a dream tonight and said, "Ask what I should give you," what would you say? It's a question that cuts right to the heart of what we're after — and what we're afraid of. Solomon, the newly crowned king of Israel, faced exactly that moment. His answer, and what it might mean for us right now, is where this week's sermon begins.

Palace Intrigue and a Troubled Inheritance

Before we can appreciate what Solomon asks for, we need to understand what he has just survived. The opening chapters of 1 Kings read less like scripture and more like a political thriller. King David, once mighty enough to slay a giant with a sling, now lies shivering in his bed, too frail even for a blanket to warm him. Around him, the vultures of ambition are already circling.

One of David's sons, Absalom, had already died in rebellion against his own father. Another son, Adonijah, launched a quiet campaign to seize the throne before David's body was even cold. Enter Bathsheba — once stripped of agency when David forced himself on her and had her husband Uriah killed — who now moves with remarkable shrewdness, conspiring with the prophet Nathan to ensure her son Solomon inherits the crown. Whether David had truly made that promise or not, the play works. Solomon is anointed king. Adonijah, in a miscalculated move, asks for the wrong thing and pays with his life.

By the time Solomon rests his head on the pillow at Gibeon, he has witnessed a lifetime's worth of ambition, betrayal, and bloodshed. And it is there — in that exhausted, hard-won quiet — that God comes to him in a dream.

A Blank Check from the Almighty

God's question is almost breathtaking in its simplicity: "Ask what I should give you."

Think for a moment about how you might answer. If fear is your compass, perhaps you'd ask for safety — for yourself, your family, a guarantee that nothing catastrophic will happen. If scarcity haunts you, perhaps you'd ask for enough: enough money, enough security, enough certainty about the future. If grievance has taken root, perhaps you'd ask for vindication — for your enemies to be humbled, for the scales to finally tip in your favor.

Solomon, heir to all of David's power and all of David's mess, asks for none of these things. His request is striking in its restraint:

"Give your servant, therefore, an understanding mind to govern your people, able to discern between good and evil, for who can govern this great people of yours?"

The English phrase "understanding mind" is a translation of a remarkable Hebrew expression: lev shomea — literally, a listening heart, or a hearing heart. Solomon doesn't ask to be heard. He asks to hear.

The Grammar of Wisdom

There's a subtlety in Solomon's Hebrew that deserves closer attention. The verb shomea is in the participle form — a grammatical construction indicating continuous, ongoing action. Solomon isn't asking for a one-time infusion of divine knowledge, some kind of spiritual download that would leave him forever enlightened. He is asking for a heart that keeps on listening — not a heart that has heard and moved on, but one that remains perpetually open, perpetually attentive.

You may recognize the root of shomea in the Shema, Israel's most central confession of faith: "Hear, O Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord alone." To pray for a lev shomea is to ask to embody that very posture — a life oriented around hearing rather than speaking, receiving rather than imposing. Centuries later, the Prayer of St. Francis would echo exactly this spirit:

O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console, to be understood as to understand, to be loved as to love.

In a political and cultural moment that rewards volume, dominance, and the loudest voice in the room, Solomon's request is nothing short of countercultural. And it is profoundly wise.

Even Wisdom Reaches for the Sword

God is pleased with Solomon's request and grants him not only wisdom, but riches and honor besides. The story that immediately follows — the famous judgment between two women both claiming the same infant — is often held up as proof of that wisdom in action. And it is. But there is something else worth noticing: when faced with an impossible dispute, Solomon's first instinct is to call for his sword.

The threat to divide the baby is a brilliant stratagem. It works. And yet — even in a moment of God-given wisdom — the hand reaches for a weapon.

This detail feels particularly important right now. We are living through an extraordinary moment of human possibility. The artificial intelligence revolution of the past few years has changed nearly everything about how we work, communicate, and understand the world. Like Solomon's wisdom, these tools hold genuine potential for good. And like Solomon's sword, they can also be wielded with devastating effect — especially if access remains concentrated in the hands of a privileged few.

We need the lev shomea now more than ever — a listening heart that can cut through the noise to hear the still, small voice of the Spirit; a listening heart that resists the reflex to reach for the sword; a listening heart that tends wisdom the way a master gardener tends a living, fragile thing.

Questions for Reflection

  1. If God appeared to you tonight and said, "Ask what I should give you," what would your honest first answer be? What does that answer reveal about what you're most afraid of, or most hungry for?
  2. Solomon asked for a lev shomea — a continuously listening heart. In what relationships or situations do you find it hardest to listen rather than speak? What might change if you approached those moments with Solomon's posture?
  3. Even with God-given wisdom, Solomon's first instinct was still to reach for the sword. Where do you notice a similar reflex in yourself — a go-to response to conflict or uncertainty that may not reflect your deepest values?
  4. How do you think about the relationship between wisdom and the tools available to us — whether technology, power, or influence? What does it look like to use powerful tools with a listening heart?
  5. This sermon begins a summer series on 1 and 2 Kings. As you think about reading these books, what themes or questions do you hope to explore? What does it mean to seek faithfulness through the ebbs and flows of history?
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"We Didn't Start the Fire"

5/26/2026

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We Didn't Start the Fire

Numbers 11:24–30  |  Acts 2:1–21

Pentecost Sunday  •  May 24, 2026

This blog post was generated by AI based on the sermon manuscript and reviewed by Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Fearing. It is not the sermon manuscript itself and may differ from what was preached.

Every Pentecost, we tell the story of tongues of fire and rushing wind in an upper room in Jerusalem. It's a dramatic, world-shaking moment — and rightly so. But this year, a quieter story from the Book of Numbers deserves equal attention. It features two men most of us have never heard of: Eldad and Medad. They weren't in the right place at the right time. Or maybe — just maybe — they were in exactly the right place at exactly the right time. That question is the heart of this Pentecost.

The Tent, the Seventy, and the Two Who Wandered In

The Israelites are worn out. They've been wandering in the desert, living on manna — and the manna is getting old. The complaints are piling up on Moses' desk. So Moses takes his frustrations directly to God, and God provides a plan: gather seventy elders at the Tent of Meeting, and some of the Spirit given to Moses will be shared among them. These commissioned leaders will help shoulder the weight of guiding an entire people through the wilderness.

For the ancient Israelites, God's Spirit was not a vague or purely internal experience. It was tangible — something you could see and feel and be astonished by. Moses' encounters with God left him literally radiant, charged up like those glow-in-the-dark stars you put on a child's ceiling. The Spirit could be transferred, shared, distributed. And so the ceremony at the Tent of Meeting was a genuine and meaningful rite of commissioning. Decent and in order, as Presbyterians are fond of saying.

But the Spirit had other ideas. Eldad and Medad — two men wandering nearby, maybe talking about nothing more profound than a new way to cook manna — suddenly and inexplicably caught fire. They hadn't been inside the tent. They hadn't gone through the process. And yet there they were, prophesying in the camp, pitching in to lead, showing up where they were needed.

"Stop Them" — The Church's Most Persistent Reflex

It didn't take long for someone to tattle. And Joshua, Moses' right-hand man, delivered his verdict in just two words: stop them.

"Stop them." Two words. Just like that, Joshua becomes the first recorded church moderator to call a point of order.

It's easy to laugh at Joshua — but it's worth sitting with the discomfort of how familiar that impulse really is. Across centuries and continents, the church has perfected the art of saying "stop them" in polished, procedural language. When women sensed the Spirit calling them to preach, the response was theological gatekeeping — and in many corners of global Christianity, that argument hasn't ended. When Black men and women sought to lead, to vote, to inhabit the public life their gifts and citizenship entitled them to, systems were built — poll taxes, gerrymandered maps, literacy tests — that dressed exclusion in the language of order and standards. When LGBTQIA+ siblings said we too have been called, the church's answer was often another committee, another discernment process, another layer of scrutiny that somehow never applied with equal rigor to those who already held power.

The architecture of "stop them" is rarely loud. It is usually polite, procedural, and convinced of its own righteousness. Just like Joshua.

The Fire Was Never Ours to Manage

Here is what Moses understood that Joshua had not yet learned: you cannot manage the Spirit of God. You can build the most carefully designed tent, follow the most thoughtful procedure, commission the most qualified seventy people — and the Spirit will still find Eldad and Medad out in the camp and set them ablaze anyway.

Moses doesn't lecture Joshua. He simply asks a question that cuts to the heart of it: "Are you jealous for my sake?" It's a gentle but firm invitation to check the ego at the door. This was never about Moses or Joshua. And then he offers one of the most expansive statements in all of scripture:

"Would that all the Lord's people were prophets — and that the Lord would put his spirit on them!"

Not just the seventy. Not just the qualified. Not just the ones who showed up to the right tent at the right time. All of them. With all their messes and gifts, their grief and hunger, their broken tents and mediocre manna recipes — Moses looked at all of it and said: I wish the Spirit would land on every single one of them.

We Didn't Start It — and We Can't Put It Out

Pentecost has a way of tempting us into self-congratulation — as if the flame is burning because we have faithfully tended it. But the fire predates us. It was burning in the desert before Moses arrived, in the upper room before the disciples gathered, in every generation of Eldads and Medads who were told not them, not here, not now — and who prophesied anyway.

This is not a call to abandon structure. The Tent of Meeting was a good idea. Orderly processes of formation and commissioning are good ideas. Structure serves community. But structure that stops asking why it exists — that begins protecting its own perpetuation more than the flourishing of the people it was built to serve — stops being a tent of meeting and becomes a wall of exclusion. And walls, as it turns out, are notoriously bad conductors of the Holy Spirit.

If we didn't start the fire, we were never meant to contain it either. The Spirit is a gift. And recipients of a gift this extravagant are called to do one thing above all else: give it away.

A Litany of "Would Thats" for Pentecost

So this Pentecost, in the spirit of Moses — who, when confronted with the possibility of the Spirit spilling beyond the expected borders, threw open his arms and said yes, let it be so — we offer our own "would thats" for this church and this world:

Would that all of us worked harder to ensure that every person in this country has equal, unencumbered access to the ballot box. A democracy that makes some voices louder by making others quieter is not decent, not orderly, and not of God.

Would that all of us built a world where no one chooses between a prescription and a meal, and where "I can't afford to see a doctor" belongs only to history books.

Would that all of us stopped calling young people the "future of the church" and older saints the "past," and saw what is actually true: that we are all, together, the present church — and God has need of every single one of us, right now.

Would that all of us treated the immigrant, the refugee, the foreigner in the camp with the same dignity we would want extended to our own children — because the Israelites were once foreigners too, and they were told not to forget it.

Would that all of us learned to be a little more Moses and a little less Joshua — a little less anxious about who's inside the tent and a little more astonished that the Spirit keeps showing up outside of it.

The fire was burning before we arrived. It will be burning long after we're gone. Our job, this Pentecost and every day after, is simply not to stand in its way.

In the name of God the Creator, Redeemer, and Sustainer — Amen.

Questions for Reflection

  1. When have you experienced the Spirit showing up somewhere — or in someone — you didn't expect? What was your first reaction?
  2. Where in your own life do you recognize the voice of Joshua — the impulse to say "stop them," even in polite or procedural language? What might Moses say to you in that moment?
  3. Moses says the problem isn't the process itself, but what happens when structure stops serving people and starts serving itself. Where do you see that happening in the church, or in your community?
  4. The sermon ends with a series of "would thats." Which one lands most personally for you — and what is one concrete step you could take in response?
  5. What would it look like, in your daily life, to be a "vessel" for the Spirit rather than a gatekeeper of it?
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"Steady As We Go"

5/18/2026

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Steady As We Go

Philippians 4:1–9

May 17, 2026

This blog post was generated by AI based on the sermon manuscript and reviewed by Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Fearing. It is not the sermon manuscript itself and may differ from what was preached.

What does it look like to hold your course when everything around you feels like it's shifting? That question sits at the heart of Paul's closing words to the church at Philippi — and, as it turns out, at the heart of what it means to be the church together right now.

A Helmsman's Word for an Anxious World

There's a phrase that sailors use when they want to keep a vessel on course through rough water: steady as she goes. It doesn't mean stop moving, or drop anchor, or wait for better weather. It means hold your heading. Stay true to the course. Trust that the destination is real and the vessel is sound.

It's a phrase that captures the spirit of Philippians 4 remarkably well. Paul opens the chapter with warmth — "my brothers and sisters, whom I love and long for, my joy and crown" — and then immediately addresses real turbulence. Two women in the congregation, Euodia and Syntyche, are in conflict. There are hints throughout the letter of division, rivalry, and anxiety. The community Paul loves is being tossed.

And from his prison cell, Paul writes: stand firm.

Standing Firm Doesn't Mean Digging In

Our instinct when we hear "stand firm" might be to picture stubbornness — planting your feet, refusing to budge, winning the argument. But that's not what Paul means. Notice what he does with Euodia and Syntyche: he doesn't take sides. He doesn't tell us who's right. He names them both with love, calls them both his coworkers in the gospel, and invites them — and their community — toward reconciliation.

"Stand firm," he says, "by coming together. By helping one another. By being gentle with one another."

This is what the Presbyterian tradition calls mutual forbearance — the practice of accepting differences, respecting conscience, and continuing to work together for the sake of unity. It's not a modern invention. It was inherited from letters like this one, written by a man in chains to a congregation very much like ours.

The Lord Is Near — Even Here

Paul's counsel might sound naïve if it were grounded in optimism about human nature. But it isn't. It's grounded in something far more sturdy: "The Lord is near."

It would be tempting, looking at the conflicts and anxieties of our world, to read them as evidence of God's absence. Paul argues the opposite. The Lord is near even when we are in conflict. The Lord is near even when Euodia and Syntyche — or any of us — don't see eye to eye. The nearness of Christ is not a reward for getting along. It's the foundation that makes getting along possible.

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." — Philippians 4:6–7

These words can feel hollow in an anxious world with anxious algorithms and one anxious news cycle after another. But we should remember where they come from. Paul isn't writing from a place of comfort and privilege. He's writing from literal chains, unsure whether this letter will be his last. His peace is not the absence of difficulty. It is something underneath the difficulty that does not shift.

Training Our Attention

Near the end of the passage, Paul gives the Philippians — and us — a list: whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, pleasing, commendable — think about these things. It sounds like a self-help checklist, but it's something far richer. Paul is describing a practice of directed attention, a way of training the eyes of our hearts toward what is good and real and lasting.

And the remarkable thing is that this is exactly what the gathered church does, Sunday after Sunday. We affirm what is true when we confess the faith together. We focus on what is honorable when we remember those who have gone before us. We attend to what is just when we collect for hungry neighbors. We reach for what is pure when we confess our sins and receive pardon. We practice what is pleasing simply by choosing, on a Sunday morning, to be here with one another.

What we do in worship, in other words, is not a retreat from the world. It's a counter-liturgy — an alternative to the endless scroll of whatever is anxious, divisive, and enraging. Every hymn, every prayer, every passing of the peace is a small act of resistance and reorientation.

Held Steady

There's a line from a 12th-century hymn that captures Paul's deepest point: "Blest when our faith can hold thee fast." But the most important word there may be the last one. We hold — but we are also held. The faith by which we cling is itself the gift of the One who held us first.

That is the good news at the center of Philippians 4. We do not hold ourselves steady. We are held steady. And because we are held, we can extend that steadiness to one another — across our differences, through our conflicts, in the middle of an anxious and divided world.

Steady as we go.

Questions for Reflection

  1. Where in your life right now do you most need to hear the words "steady as she goes"? What would it mean to hold your course rather than drop anchor or turn back?
  2. Paul names Euodia and Syntyche with equal love and calls them both to reconciliation, without taking sides. Is there a conflict in your life — personal, communal, or political — where you might practice that same kind of mutual forbearance?
  3. Paul's peace was not the absence of hardship — he wrote from prison. How does knowing that change the way you hear his invitation not to be anxious?
  4. Think about the list in Philippians 4:8 — true, honorable, just, pure, pleasing, commendable. Where is your attention most often directed? What might it look like to intentionally redirect it toward what is good?
  5. In what ways do you experience the gathered life of the church — worship, prayer, sharing the peace, singing together — as a practice that reorients you toward God and one another?
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"Loss and Gain"

5/10/2026

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Loss and Gain

A reflection on Philippians 3 | Sunday, May 10, 2026 | Guilford Park Presbyterian Church

Editor’s Note: This blog post was created with the assistance of artificial intelligence and reviewed by Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Fearing. It is based on a sermon preached at Guilford Park Presbyterian Church and is intended as a summary and interpretation of the sermon’s themes for web reading, not as a verbatim manuscript.

Most people carry some kind of ledger.

Some are literal, but many are internal: quiet scorecards that track accomplishments, failures, credentials, and comparisons. These ledgers help people measure whether they are succeeding, whether they matter, and how they stack up against others. They can offer a fleeting sense of satisfaction, but they often leave behind resentment, anxiety, and a diminished capacity for gratitude.

Philippians 3 speaks directly into that way of living. In this chapter, Paul takes a long, honest look at the ledger he once trusted and discovers that Christ has changed the math entirely.

Paul looks at all the things he once counted as gain and declares them loss compared to the surpassing value of knowing Christ.

Paul’s résumé is, by the standards of his world, deeply impressive. He can point to covenantal belonging, religious pedigree, zeal, and blamelessness under the law. He knows exactly how seductive such credentials can be. He knows how easily human beings build identity out of the things that make them feel secure, superior, or righteous.

But then comes the pivot. Paul introduces the trapdoor word: yet. What seemed like a sturdy platform suddenly gives way. Everything he once counted as gain becomes loss because of Christ. Even the holiest parts of his résumé cannot do what only grace can do.

The Ledger and the Rat Race

The sermon framed this passage through the image of a ledger and the exhausting “rat race” it creates. Ledgers are not just about money or achievements; they are about self-justification. They are the ways people quietly say, “Look at me. See why I matter. See why I’m enough.”

Paul’s concern is not that every accomplishment is bad or that every identity marker is meaningless. The problem is deeper: people begin trusting those things more than grace. They begin relying on performance, belonging, or achievement to give them the righteousness and security that only Christ can give.

The things people use to prove themselves can quietly become the things they trust more than grace.

That truth is not confined to the ancient world. Modern ledgers may look different, but they function in much the same way. They can take the form of degrees on the wall, reputation in the community, money in the bank, children who perform well, political opinions one feels proud to hold, or a carefully maintained sense of being one of the “good ones.” The content changes, but the temptation remains the same.

Christ Meets People in Their Need

At the heart of the sermon was the claim that Christ does not wait for people to become impressive enough before claiming them. Christ does not love them because they have kept every plate spinning or balanced every account. Christ meets them in the middle of their need.

That is what Paul is getting at when he speaks of wanting to “gain Christ and be found in him,” not with a righteousness of his own, but with a righteousness that comes from God as gift. This is not something people earn; it is something they receive.

Christ is not auditing human accomplishments. In Christ, people are already claimed by grace.

That grace is not merely a comforting thought. It changes how people live. When they no longer have to prove themselves worthy, they become freer to stop comparing, freer to breathe, freer to serve, and freer to encourage others. The rat race loses its grip when the ledger is no longer the measure of a life.

Running Your Own Race

One of the sermon’s most memorable companion images came from the Bluey episode “Baby Race.” In that story, comparison begins to steal joy from a mother who is anxiously measuring her child’s development against everyone else’s. What loosens her grip on that parenting ledger is a simple word of grace: “You’re doing great.”

That scene became a powerful illustration of Paul’s point. Once people stop measuring themselves against one another, they become freer to live with joy, gratitude, and generosity. They can run their own race rather than spending their lives glancing sideways at everyone else.

The gospel interrupts the rat race and replaces the ledger with love.

That is good news not only for those who feel crushed by impossible standards, but also for those who find themselves measuring others. When grace becomes the foundation, human beings are freed to stop keeping score and to begin helping one another live as beloved people rather than anxious competitors.

Pressing On in Grace

Philippians 3 does not end in passivity. Paul still says that he presses on. He still speaks of striving forward, of laying hold of the life to which Christ has called him. But the difference is crucial: he is not striving in order to earn God’s love. He is pressing on because Christ has already laid hold of him.

That distinction matters for Christian discipleship. People still love, serve, work, parent, pray, forgive, and try again. But they do not do these things to earn grace. They do them because grace has already found them.

People do not press on to earn God’s grace. They press on because grace has already laid hold of them.

This is where the sermon finally landed: in an invitation to put down the ledger, to stop balancing the book one more time, and to trust that Christ is not waiting at the finish line with a red pen. Christ gathers up the whole messy account of human life—the gains, the losses, the griefs, the striving—and says, “You are found in me.”

That is the good news of Philippians 3. In a world addicted to comparison, competition, and self-justification, Christ offers something better: a life grounded not in anxious proving, but in grace. And from that place of grace, people can help one another hear the words so many long to receive: you are loved, you are already enough in Christ, and you do not have to keep score anymore.


Reflection Questions

  • What kinds of ledgers do you find yourself carrying in your own life?
  • What achievements, identities, or comparisons are you tempted to trust more than grace?
  • What does it mean for you to be “found in Christ” rather than in your performance?
  • Who in your life may need to hear a word of grace instead of one more scorecard?

This post reflects themes from a sermon preached by Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Fearing at Guilford Park Presbyterian Church on Sunday, May 10, 2026.

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