Have you ever found yourself writing about resurrection while sitting on death itself? It sounds bizarre, but that's precisely where I found myself ten years ago, the day before Easter. Let me share a story that forever changed how I view the interplay of grief and hope, especially during the Easter season.
When Easter Meets a Horse Funeral
It was the Saturday before Easter, and I was headed to my office to write the sermon I'd been procrastinating on. Then, I received an unusual text: "Pastor Stephen, quick question: how much experience do you have burying horses?" Little did I know that this message would lead me to one of the most profound experiences of my pastoral career.
Within an hour, I found myself sitting on the warm carcass of a beloved horse named Luke, comforting his grieving owner. As she shared stories of Luke's 25-year life, I witnessed her pain. Later, as we pushed Luke's body into the freshly dug grave, I couldn't help but think about the Easter sermon I still had to write.
This experience crystallized for me the intricate relationship between grief and hope, especially as we approach Easter. As the 13th-century Persian poet Rumi said, "The wound is the place where the light enters you." This simple yet profound line articulates the complex dance between sorrow and joy we often encounter in our faith journey.
Grief and Hope: Strange Bedfellows
It's tempting to avoid discussing grief on Easter Sunday. After all, shouldn't we focus solely on the joy of resurrection? But the truth is, there is no hope without grief. Because grief is part of being human, and if we can't bring our grief to Church, it means our whole selves aren't welcome.
So today, I ask you to hold grief in one hand and hope in the other. For such is the work of a living, active faith grounded in the truth of the Resurrection and acknowledging the complexity of the world in which we live.
The Women at the Tomb: A Biblical Perspective
Consider the emotions that Jesus' disciples experienced on that first Easter morning. Luke 24:1-3 tells us:
"But on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they came to the tomb, taking the spices they had prepared. They found the stone rolled away from the tomb, but when they went in, they did not find the body."
The day begins without any alleluia; instead, it presents a group of women who arrive with burial spices to anoint the body of their cherished Savior. Their tears echo the sorrow of those of us who have lost loved ones, who are witnessing the world's brokenness, or who are carrying burdens that feel as though they keep us from hope's warm embrace.
Grief: An Essential Part of Faith
Grief leads us to act in strange ways. It disrupts our bodies and minds, prompting both memories and losses. The women at the tomb weren't the only ones affected. When they ran to tell the men about their experience, Luke 24:11 says, "But these words seemed to them an idle tale, and they did not believe them."
Can we really fault them? What's dead should remain dead. It's one of the few certainties we can rely on in this unpredictable world. If that certainty is no longer reliable, what else is plausible?
Hope in the Resurrection
And there's the hope, friends. Because in a world that demands answers fitting into neat, tidy categories that uphold the status quo, resurrection invites questions that make the powers of evil distinctly uncomfortable.
What if Caesar isn't as omnipotent as he claims he is?
What if power isn't a muscle to flex but a humility to embrace?
What if grief is something that unites us in practicing hope?
What if that very God who dies is none other than the God who lives forever?
The resurrection is more than a hallmark card featuring bunnies and eggs in soft pastels; resurrection is resistance! It signifies accepting a different form of unacceptability- one that might be ridiculed by others. Proclaiming the resurrection today means embracing what those in power deem truly unacceptable: that anyone or anything besides them holds the final authority.
Life Application: Embracing Both Grief and Hope
So, how do we live in this tension between grief and hope? Here are some practical steps:
As we leave this Easter celebration, may our hearts overflow with alleluias—alleluia for the grief that has shaped us, alleluia for the hope that sustains us, and alleluia for the resurrected Christ who walks with us through every trial. Go forth, celebrate with courage, and let your lives testify to love's victory over death. And as you do so, remember: "the wound is the place where the light enters you."
When Easter Meets a Horse Funeral
It was the Saturday before Easter, and I was headed to my office to write the sermon I'd been procrastinating on. Then, I received an unusual text: "Pastor Stephen, quick question: how much experience do you have burying horses?" Little did I know that this message would lead me to one of the most profound experiences of my pastoral career.
Within an hour, I found myself sitting on the warm carcass of a beloved horse named Luke, comforting his grieving owner. As she shared stories of Luke's 25-year life, I witnessed her pain. Later, as we pushed Luke's body into the freshly dug grave, I couldn't help but think about the Easter sermon I still had to write.
This experience crystallized for me the intricate relationship between grief and hope, especially as we approach Easter. As the 13th-century Persian poet Rumi said, "The wound is the place where the light enters you." This simple yet profound line articulates the complex dance between sorrow and joy we often encounter in our faith journey.
Grief and Hope: Strange Bedfellows
It's tempting to avoid discussing grief on Easter Sunday. After all, shouldn't we focus solely on the joy of resurrection? But the truth is, there is no hope without grief. Because grief is part of being human, and if we can't bring our grief to Church, it means our whole selves aren't welcome.
So today, I ask you to hold grief in one hand and hope in the other. For such is the work of a living, active faith grounded in the truth of the Resurrection and acknowledging the complexity of the world in which we live.
The Women at the Tomb: A Biblical Perspective
Consider the emotions that Jesus' disciples experienced on that first Easter morning. Luke 24:1-3 tells us:
"But on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they came to the tomb, taking the spices they had prepared. They found the stone rolled away from the tomb, but when they went in, they did not find the body."
The day begins without any alleluia; instead, it presents a group of women who arrive with burial spices to anoint the body of their cherished Savior. Their tears echo the sorrow of those of us who have lost loved ones, who are witnessing the world's brokenness, or who are carrying burdens that feel as though they keep us from hope's warm embrace.
Grief: An Essential Part of Faith
Grief leads us to act in strange ways. It disrupts our bodies and minds, prompting both memories and losses. The women at the tomb weren't the only ones affected. When they ran to tell the men about their experience, Luke 24:11 says, "But these words seemed to them an idle tale, and they did not believe them."
Can we really fault them? What's dead should remain dead. It's one of the few certainties we can rely on in this unpredictable world. If that certainty is no longer reliable, what else is plausible?
Hope in the Resurrection
And there's the hope, friends. Because in a world that demands answers fitting into neat, tidy categories that uphold the status quo, resurrection invites questions that make the powers of evil distinctly uncomfortable.
What if Caesar isn't as omnipotent as he claims he is?
What if power isn't a muscle to flex but a humility to embrace?
What if grief is something that unites us in practicing hope?
What if that very God who dies is none other than the God who lives forever?
The resurrection is more than a hallmark card featuring bunnies and eggs in soft pastels; resurrection is resistance! It signifies accepting a different form of unacceptability- one that might be ridiculed by others. Proclaiming the resurrection today means embracing what those in power deem truly unacceptable: that anyone or anything besides them holds the final authority.
Life Application: Embracing Both Grief and Hope
So, how do we live in this tension between grief and hope? Here are some practical steps:
- Acknowledge Your Grief: Don't shy away from your pain. Bring it to God and to your faith community. As Paul says in 1 Thessalonians 4:13, we "do not grieve as others do who have no hope."
- Hold onto Hope: Even in your darkest moments, cling to the promise of resurrection. As my wife often says, "if all is not well, then all is not over."
- Encourage One Another: Paul instructs us in 1 Thessalonians 4:18, "Therefore encourage one another with these words." Share your stories of grief and hope with others, and be open to hearing theirs.
- Live Out the Resurrection: Let your life be a testimony to the power of resurrection. Stand against injustice, show love to the marginalized, and proclaim hope in a world that desperately needs it.
As we leave this Easter celebration, may our hearts overflow with alleluias—alleluia for the grief that has shaped us, alleluia for the hope that sustains us, and alleluia for the resurrected Christ who walks with us through every trial. Go forth, celebrate with courage, and let your lives testify to love's victory over death. And as you do so, remember: "the wound is the place where the light enters you."